Choosing your wedding party is very important to most brides and grooms because you want some of the most important people in your life standing next to you on your big day. Most wedding parties consist of 8-12 people but can have more or less depending on the style, type, and size of the wedding. Stuck on trying to figure out who to invite to stand next to you at the altar? Hopefully, I can help you narrow your options down.
The Maid of Honor: Typically, this is the bride’s sister. If a bride has more than one sister, she usually invites the one closest in age to be the MOH. (If you’re lucky and have two sisters and one is married, you can have a Maid of Honor and a Matron of Honor!) No sister? Ask your best friend. Two best friends? Who says you can’t have two maids of honor? Some brides have even chosen their brother or close male friend to be their maid of honor, and have just given them more of a masculine role. Today’s wedding rules are not what they were yesterday; you can get away with quite a bit. No matter what – choose someone you can trust and rely on. The MOH has many responsibilities, so if your best friend is a little scatter-brained, you may want to consider someone else.
The Best Man: This is basically the same as above. Traditionally, the groom asks his brother(s) to be the best man; however, a close female friend, sister, or any other good friend may be your best man. Consider your dad, too! BONUS TIP: Pick someone who gets along with the bride!
Bridesmaids and Groomsmen: Ask close friends to join you on your big day. Siblings trump friends! If your groom has a sister (or bride has a brother), consider adding them to your bridal party. And remember to choose friends who will be friends with you long after you say, ”I do.” DON’T ask someone to be in your wedding just because you were in hers/his.
Flower Girl and Ring Bearer: While not every bride and groom opt to have a little one walk down the aisle, many who are close to small children definitely choose to include them in their wedding. BONUS TIP: Since children aren’t expected to act like adults, try to make sure your flower girl and ring bearer are at least four years old.
Still frustrated? Keep it simple: Choose friends who you consider to be family.